Sometimes
in life, the demands of work and the need for independence has turned
many of us into mini-flat dwellers and apartment settlers. Others times,
we are forced to move to foreign lands for work or studies and find
ourselves living alone.
The thought of living alone in a big metropolitan city like Lagos can
be utterly daunting, especially if it is your first time. At first, you
battle with such thoughts as “won’t it get really lonely?”, “will I
cope?” And the answer is sure, as with time you realize that are so
many great things about living by yourself in Lagos.
While
life alone in Lagos can be very rewarding, there are certain things you
need to remember to ensure the days you spend turn out smoothly.
The alarm clock is your best friend
The
problem of traffic congestion in Lagos is no longer a secret nor
something that can be ignored. The moment you have found a place to move
into within the city, the first thing you need to buy is an alarm
clock. Even if you are on a sabbatical and will stay indoors for the
period you are in town, you still need an alarm clock to help you
schedule the few movements you may need to make. That way you can remind
yourself of rush hours and give yourself an early start to any destination.
A good relationship with your landlord saves you a lot of stress
Before
you move into a new apartment in Lagos, ensure you have a clear deal
with your landlord. Sign a contract that clearly states the amount you
will be paying and when will you be doing so. Again try to always
fulfill your end of the contract, as that is the way to stay in your
landlord’s good graces. No doubt some landlords that will just be
terrible no matter what you do, however, while you do not have to make
your landlord your best friend, keep your relationship positive,
cheerful and fairly simple. Maintain this attitude is important as it
becomes an incentive during times you need your landlord help to settle
utility bills and other concerns.
Tipping your security guard is the best way to survive
The
security guard often called ‘gateman’ or ‘maiguard’ plays an important
role when it comes to living a good life if you are doing it solo in
Lagos. They are very handy and the tip is usually an essential
motivation for them. They can help you runs small errands like fetching
water, buy fuel for you in times of fuel scarcity and even sort out
problems in your apartment when you are not around. He also keeps you
informed on what is going on in your environs. You however need to be
careful, study the security guard and trust him before you start to rely
on him.
Having a rigid budget and learning to improvise keeps you afloat
You need
to have a firm budget. Put everything into consideration: from food to
transportation and utility bills. Learn to cook rather than always
buying food outside, it will help you cut costs. Also, learn to
improvise rather than always purchasing new appliances. Again, try how
to do things yourself rather than employing external help to get things
done. YouTube has all the DIY instructions you need so use it instead.
Ensure you remain strict with spending, otherwise you will severely cut
into your budget, and cause bigger problems for yourself.
Secure windows and doors are essential
Before
you move in, ensure the windows and doors are secure and possibly
impenetrable. This is very important for your safety, especially if you
are living in a notorious part of the city. While security guards are
employed to make sure no suspicious individual enter without your
permission, you need to be extra cautious as some unwelcome guests can
be very innovative.
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